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Just One Step

An ordinary event occurred at work today.  A meeting request arrived in my Inbox this afternoon.  There was no indication of a conflict, so I accepted the invitation.  But something inside of me said that I needed to check my calendar for the rest of the week.  I did.  Only to find that there was very little time during the next few days that was not already scheduled for me.

The anxiety started to creep in as I thought about the deadlines hurdling toward me.  As if my schedule for the next couple of days did not turn up the heat enough I decided to peek at my calendar for next week.  Different names and meeting titles appeared in the time slots, but the same volume of meetings and calls showed on my agenda for the coming week.  I thought about all that I needed to do.  I wondered how I would get everything done.

As I pondered my situation, I moved my mouse cursor to open one of the requests to see more details about that particular meeting.  Instead of opening the meeting request I accidentally changed the view of my calendar.  At that point I only saw my schedule for today, not for the entire week.  When I only looked at a day rather than a week, a sense of calm flowed over me.  As the saying goes, I could not see the trees for looking at the forest.  My obligations did not change, but how I saw them did.  I had a new perspective.

I sometimes get a bit intimidated when I try to tackle a large task without looking at the smaller components that are a part of the bigger picture.  Life can be like that.  We sometimes go through periods where we encounter challenge after challenge.  After awhile we start to see one big problem.  If we try to address the one big problem we may fail, because we have not dealt with the smaller issues that are a part of it.  Even challenges that seem impossible to overcome may look more resoluble when we break them down into smaller pieces.

I’m learning to pick one piece of a task or problem at a time and focus on it rather than looking at the matter as a whole and panicking.  When that part is completed, I move on to the next piece and handle it.  The reality is that I make more progress and accomplish more when when I focus on and deal with one thing at a time.

Yes, we need to be able to visualize the big picture, but the big picture should not keep us from seeing the little pieces that make up the whole.  Is there a task or challenge in your life that is overwhelming you by its size?  Perhaps breaking it into smaller parts can help you shift from “I can’t possibly to this” to “Yes, I see a way to accomplish this.”  After all, pretty much anything that we do in life is like walking.  We have to take one step at a time.

“One may walk over the highest mountain one step at a time.” – John Wanamaker

Blessings.

See.  Live.  Enjoy.

Wise Words – 3/5/2012

A Time Of Discovery

We said adios to 2010 a few days ago.  We’re now well into the first week of 2011. Looking at my calendar today made me stop and think about how I spent 2010.  Spent is the word that I choose to describe the use of time, because time like money has value.  In my opinion time is more valuable than money.  We can always make more money, but we can’t make more time.

Back to the subject of how I spent 2010.  Most of it was focused on getting back into the flow of life here in the U.S.  If I had to characterize the year I would have to say that 2010 was a year of discovery for me–self discovery to be more precise.  The theme of self-discovery flowed throughout the year for me regardless of what I did or where I was located.

One thing that I discovered about myself is how important it is for me to have a creative outlet.  I started working on an interesting but time intensive legal project during autumn 2010.  I initially thought that I would be able to continue my normal blogging schedule, but about a week into the project reality set in.  There simply were not enough hours in the day to do everything that I wanted to do, so I took a hiatus from THE Blog. What I didn’t realize at the time was that when I suspended my writing, I stopped feeding my creative side.  I enjoy being a lawyer, but that only nourishes my analytical side.  I need that, but I also need to nurture the creative part of me in order to be balanced.  A couple of weeks ago I ended my break and starting writing and blogging again.  I felt more at peace as soon as I hit the publish button for my return post.  I now know that I need to write and create regardless of what else is going on in my life.  I may not post as often, or my posts maybe be shorter than in the past, but I will write.

I discovered my need to create.  What did you learn about yourself in 2010 that you didn’t know or acknowledge before? How can you use this information to live a more joyful and balanced life?

Blessings!

See.  Live.  Enjoy.